Tuesday 30 March 2010

Growth spurts

I think baby Jinc is going through a growth spurt. He is becoming really demanding when it comes to feeding. He is hungry all the time and cries so much when he is sleeping. It is a good sign that he is growing well, and that makes me a really happy mum !!

My love for him grows stronger and stronger each day. Sometimes, I can just sit beside his crib and stare at him for hours when he is asleep. He is such a gorgeous looking little baby, and I just can't take my eyes off him!

Friday 26 March 2010

Baby traditions : Chinese Full Moon




Baby Jinc is now one month old!!

For Chinese, when a baby turns one month old, a ceremony is held to celebrate his full moon. This is also mean that I have come to an end of my confinement period.

Here, we do not have a big celebration, however, we boiled red eggs and distributed to friends. We received lots of well wishes and wonderful gifts. Now, it is time for me to sort out thank you cards!

Time flies...

It is exactly 4 weeks now since Jinc is born. He is four weeks old now. He sleeps well through the night, and feeds better compared to two weeks ago. I am so please.

He is growing every day, and sometimes, holding him in my arms to sleep is so so nice. The baby smell, the softness of the skin, the hair...I would think, this won't last long until he goes to bed on his own.

This is so amazing, we made a baby!

Tuesday 23 March 2010

Clingy Baby..

My little baby is very clingy. I hardly have time to sit down and do my own things. He needs cuddle all the time!

I wish I can post more on this blog, about my thoughts and some early parenthood anxieties. Unfortunately, I do not get much time to sit down in front of my computer. I hope this won't be going on for too long...

I hope when Jinc is 4-6 weeks old, he will sleep more during the night. I am still not getting enough sleep at this stage. I am already getting used to it! It is hard work for new mum... Sometimes I do wish my mum is around to help me, at least.....

Wednesday 17 March 2010

Jinc is three weeks now..

Jinc is already three weeks old with me at home now..
How time flies, my love for him is deeper everyday...
I love my baby, and until today, I still cannot believe that I am a mummy!

Friday 12 March 2010

Baby has diarrhoe and nappy rash....

Just when I thought I won't be feeling tearful anymore, Jinc has got diarrhoea since last night and he has been very grumpy. We even canceled his photo shoot appointment today.

As Sugar left for work, I tried to take a deep breath and assure myself that things will be fine. It is just me and the baby, and hey, I should enjoy the moment, not dread it!

So, here I am, feeling really content after a big evening feed, and he sleeps soundly in his cot. I can have some me-time, and it is dinner time too.

Jinc's diarrhoea has gone. I am so pleased with it. He is no longer grumpy, but a little happy and content baby. I just can't stop kissing him. Such a darling!

Yes, I am coping well, I guess the baby blues have gone.....Oh, yes, his nappy rash isnt something serious, just some red bottom and it is healing, I am changing his nappies as soon as they get soiled and I am also wiping his bottom with cotton wool and warm water, instead of the convenient baby wipes...Oh, such hard work.

I am loving every moment of being a new mum. I have to keep reminding myself that Jinc is such an angel, and I should be very very grateful...

Thursday 11 March 2010

Hardly ever have time....

Baby Jinc is 13 days old now.

I am still coping as a new mum, learning his pattern, and as for Jinc, he is also at this learning stage. We are both learning and getting to know each other better. This is not easy. I get panic easily when Jinc started to cry. Then I would be checking whether he needs a nappy change, a feed, or just a cuddle. When this goes on like every hour, you can go insane!!!

I guess this is the fun part of being a new mum. More fun moments to look forward to, i guess...

I can only do quick post these days...Jinc is very clingy and I am loving it!

Facebooking is great. So many well wishes from friends all over the world. I feel overwhelmed, not to mention many advice flooded in by other mum friends too. I feel very good to be able to talk motherhood and parenting with friends who have young children... We are all learning..

Wednesday 10 March 2010

Daddy's Birthday...


Happy Birthday to Daddy.... we love you loads...

No special birthday celebration, but lots of cuddles with our bundle of joy!

Coping..

Jinc, day 13...

I am breastfeeding Jinc ever since he was born. Now, I am struggling with the breastfeeding. My nipples hurt so much and I have to express my milk.

I have got a breastfeeding advisor who comes to visit me and shows me different positions to feed my baby. It is so tough, I am totally drain out, and I just feel like I need to switch to formula milk. Baby doesnt seem too satisfied after each feed.

God, please help me!

Sunday 7 March 2010

Breast is best!

I started breast feeding straight after I delivered Jinc. He was put to my tummy right after the birth and we had a short cuddle and skin-to-skin moment. It was so amazing, and the first time that I saw his face I just could not believe myself! I have got a baby boy now. I remember, he then found my breast and wanted to suck on it immediately. That was such a special moment and the very first time that I ever felt so motherly when my baby was sucking on my nipple. I was feeding my baby, it was so natural. All I got was colostrum and my baby was getting all the goodness!


I am very determine that I want to breastfeed him as long as I can. Now, at his 10th day and the feeding is not going very well. Even though I have established breast feeding and the milk comes in on the third day after delivery. The latching on is still a problem, and tomorrow I will have to see the breastfeeding advisor. Sigh. I feel very devastated when he could not latch on properly.

I am getting worried, I am not sure whether he is getting enough. He does not seem to grow... Sigh..


Friday 5 March 2010

Got milk?


I am trying to breastfeed bay Jinc as much as I could.
Unfortunately, he has got problem latching on properly, resulted a cracked nipple on my left breast. It hurts so much and I am tempted to quit breastfeeding! Sigh...

I am still not ready to give up, I guess.

I have booked the breastfeeding support worker to come round my house to teach me the correct position. Meanwhile, I am applying Lansinoh nipple cream to ease my pain. I am also hand-expressing breast milk to the bottle, I have no choice... I feel terribly upset with this. It seems, the more upset I get, the chances of successful breastfeeding is lower. So , I got to be strong and think positive!

3oz of breast milk (pic), and I am producing more...!!

A hungry baby makes an upset mum, so I want to feed my baby Jinc as much as he wants so that he is satisfied and stay happy!

Breastfeeding, should come natural and should not be stressful for new mum like me!

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Lansinoh nipple cream is so useful. It helps to heal crack nipples and ease my nipple pain. It is so easy to use, and it is very effective. After a few applications, I could see that my nipple is healing and the best thing about Lansinoh nipple cream is that it need not be washed away whenever I am giving the breast to my baby. It is so convenient. It is a godsend!


Thursday 4 March 2010

Jinc Ling


Jinc Ling, my new born, my first son, he is my world, my everything!!

I am a mum now!!!




Our baby boy was born on 26th February 2010. He arrives safely right on the dot of his due date. Very pleased with it.

The labour was very smooth, and it was quick. I started to feel mild contraction at 5.18am on the 25th. It was so mild that I could continue to sleep, and continue to do usual daily activities. I kinda had the feeling that the little one will make an appearance soon.

Apart from the mild contraction, I had a 'show'. I rang the maternity unit of my hospital and told them about the contraction, the midwife advised me to stay relax and to stay at home as long as I could, because it was the latent phase of labour. I was not on active labour yet.

I had a nap, I spent some time chatting with Sugar, he was not working and we spent the whole day together. We had dinner together, chatted, and the contractions continued. It did not hurt, but it was a little bit uncomfortable.

After dinner, I decided to lie down for a rest, but the contraction had turned stronger. I was bleeding and I was not sure anymore whether it was the mucus plug or it was something else. I rang the maternity unit again, and the midwife advised me to go in to the hospital.

So, at about 9.30pm, we arrived at the hospital, at the antenatal unit. The midwife checked on me, monitored baby's heart beat, and she was happy that I should go home and wait for active labour to begin. Everything seemed so fine. So, we went home at about 11.30pm. At about 1.30,am I felt the regular strong contraction. I could no longer lie down on my bed. I started to do deep breathing to ease the pain. The pain was managable, but very uncomfortable. I called my midwife again, and she told us to go back to the hospital. I grabbed my hospital back and off we went to the hospital again. Luckily, the hospital is very closeby, about 5 minutes drive from our house.

Arrived at the hospital, midwife checked on baby's heart beat, and the contraction became stronger and stronger. The midwife, Jeannette was so caring and supportive, she taught me to breathe through every contraction. She checked on me, I was only 2cm dilated. As the contraction came stronger and stronger, she finally agreed to send me off to the delivery suite. As I was having the Group B Strep, I needed to put on antibiotics before the birth.

Arrived at the delivery suite at about 2.00am. I lied on the bed, breathing through every strong contraction. Sugar right beside me, and he was doing the breathing with me. I requested for an epidural as the pain was so strong i dreaded some pain relief. Two very helpful midwives, Lynn and Louise at the delivery suite advised me to use Entonox (Gas & Air). I was quite relieve to have some form of pain relief. The gas and air helped eliminate the pain, I felt quite pleased with it. Sugar was beside me throughout. I was nervous, but I knew, I would see my baby very soon. Lynn, the midwife was very humorous and she joked all the time trying to switch my attention away from the pain that I had.

Within 2 hours of breathing and with the help of Entonox and lots of drinking water, as my mouth and throat had gone very very dry. I was told that I was already 10cm dilated. It was a good news. I had my antibiotics on, and I prayed hard that baby will be fine and healthy. When I feel the urge to push, I made a few 'big' pushes, and there he was, crying out loud! Our baby arrived safely. Such great joy, but i did not cry... I was completely relieve, as I had made it! What a great achievement.

Our baby boy made it to the world at 5.20am. He was then put straight to my tummy, to have skin-to skin contact with me. I was overwhelmed. I did not cry, although I thought I would. Sugar cried and left the delivery suite to send the good news to all our family and friends.

What a short and straight forward labour!

A million thanks to Lynne Gethendae and Louise Shaw, the midwives on that day who helped deliver my baby.