Wednesday, 30 June 2010

The smile...


I was busy typing on my laptop and Jinc was only just beside me, he sat quietly and when I turned to look at him, he turned to me and gave me the sweetest smile in the world...

Aww, my baby.. he has the most beautiful smile.. and yes, this is the smile that brings me great joy. Isn't motherhood the most wonderful thing for a new mum?

Monday, 28 June 2010

It rains....

Typical housewife day, and it is raining...

Before I became a mother, I would certainly dread a typical housewife day like this, but today, I feel so content to be a stay-at-home mum. I guess as a woman of the twenty first century, I have got to have good adaptability to find the sort of life balance element, and happiness is about simplicity, I suppose....


Sunday, 27 June 2010

Update, 4-Month Old


Jinc is four months old!

He weighs 6.8kg (14Ibs150z). He is not a very heavy baby boy at the moment, but he is perfectly healthy. His weight gain is perfect for his weight chart at four months old. I am totally happy.

He used to have small patches of cradle cap since he was about six weeks old, and the cradle cap is completely gone now. We did not use a special shampoo for cradle cap too. However, the dry skin on his wrist is still there, and we still use Doublebase cream as prescribed by our GP religiously. The skin condition did improve over time..

His development includes rolling over( rolls better from his right), reaching out for rattles and toys, grabbing toys and he is able to play alone now. He loves to put objects into his mouth. He is dribbling more than last month, and I suspect he is reaching the very early stage of teething. He also loves to suck his fingers, all five of his fingers on both his left hand and right hand.

These days, he still loves his milk. However, he is not feeding as frequently, which is good news for me. He sleeps so well during the night, and literally sleeps through the night. What a relieve for me. His sleeping position is still the same, he sleeps soundly and uninterruptedly when he is sleeping on his tummy. He seems very uncomfortable to sleep on its back. So I let him sleep on his tummy every day, ever since he was about 10 weeks old!

He laughs a lot, and he loves all sorts of game. He loves to look at himself in the mirror and smile, how cute! He also loves to be on his feet, and he loves to bounce up and down when I supported under his arms. This is a very tiring job for me, but Jinc loves it! We are considering buying a doorway bouncer for him before getting him a walker.

I still do not think he can call 'mummy' or 'daddy', but occasionally, I would hear him making the vocal sounds, such as boo-boo, ma-ma. When I brought him his bottle and said 'milk-milk', he will copy me said mma-mma.. How amazing....

At four months, he is Ok and happy to have anyone to carry or cuddle him. In fact, he is happy just to have someone to carry him.

At four months old, it is a very exciting stage as he starts to communicate, and I began to see his personality, a big personality, my boy!!


Saturday, 26 June 2010

The Weaning Game...


Jinc is nearly four months old. It is about time to start to think about weaning. The health visitor came over the other day and spoke to me about weaning. Most baby clubs that I joined have since sent me lots of weaning information packs, full of goodies, such as weaning guide booklets,samples of weaning food, rubber spoons, recipes and fridge magnets.

I have no rush for this, and I just want to make sure Jinc is completely ready. It is recommended by health care experts that to start solids when a baby is six month old. Every baby is different, and I guess I will have to look for signs when Jinc is ready, I would know, I am sure...

Jinc is completely happy with milk at the moment!

It's a family thing...

Mum and sis arrived on Monday.....

My house is so full of noises, and Jinc is very happy to get all the attention from his grandma and aunt. Jinc loves to look at us when all of us chat endlessly, he seems to understand. For a moment, I just cannot wait for him to learn to talk and start talking to me.

Sugar and I are delighted too!

Life is simply wonderful when close family members come to stay with us!

Friday, 18 June 2010

It's very exciting!

My mum and sis are coming for a visit. They will arrive in a few days time, and I am getting all very excited. I am sure Jinc is as excited too.

It will be the very first time for Jinc to meet his grandma, and it is the very first time for my mum to meet my baby boy, her very first grandchild. As for my sis, she is getting very excited to meet her first nephew. Every one in the house is feeling very excited, as it is the first time to see the baby in person, to hold the baby and to feel his soft skin.

I am sure Jinc will love a house full of noises as every one is making a fuss over this cute little baby boy we adore so much!!!

We can't wait!

Wednesday, 16 June 2010

My laughing baby...

Jinc is such a happy baby,which makes me a very happy mum.

Today, for the first time, I made him laugh! He laughs when I tickle his chest, he laughs out loud, so cute! He squeals when he is happy too! This is very cute too.

I totally enjoy magical moment like this, therefore, I am starting to video Jinc..

Happy nut...

Jinc is my happy nut, he makes me laugh every day and my love for him grows deeper each day.

I just can't stop telling myself how lucky I am to have him at this stage of my life. I want him to know I love him so much, and he is my world now. My love for him is unconditional, and I would do anything for him to make him happy living in this world. I will try to give him the best life I could ever create, just for him... I wonder, when he grows up, will he love me as much as I love him?

I am thinking, when I was a baby, I got all the love from my parents, and I believe they love me so much that I was the world for them. Now that I have grown up, and a mother myself, I just feel that I do not love my parents enough. I know I can never repay what they have done for me. I guess the best that I could do to show them I love them very much is to live happily and healthily.

Jinc is such a happy baby and he makes me a happy mum too!


Tuesday, 15 June 2010

Photographs..


I have been tidying up picture folders and sort out all the photographs of Jinc taken since he was born. Oh dear, I have thousands and thousands of his photographs.

Looking at all the photographs, I could see how quickly he has grown and the weekly changes of his features and shapes. It is amazing and I just can't stop telling myself how lucky I am to have such a wonderful baby!

I am considering getting a DSLR, but my current compact digital camera is as good as gold too. Still can't make up my mind... I am not sure whether I will bring a bulky DSLR when I am going out with Jinc. Now, I have always need to bring a big changing bag when I am out and about, not too sure how if I would carry a DSLR...

Sunday, 13 June 2010

Growing baby...


Jinc is now 3.5-month old, he is the love of my life!

Wednesday, 9 June 2010

A book of love...

Received the photobook which I created for Jinc this morning. It is beautiful!The quality is really good and I am so going to show it to friends and family.

The photobook is a collection of Jinc's newborn and 1-month old photographs. Now, I am going to create a second photobook for him, and I will continue to do this for him for a very long time, I reckon.

See Jinc's photobook here...

Tuesday, 8 June 2010

JInc loves the great outdoor..


Sitting on the grass, enjoying the sun!



The weather has been very very good recently, and I have been out a lot with Jinc. He loves it. He absolutely loves the fresh air and the sunshine. I guess he feels kinda bored to be at home, with me when daddy goes to work!

I have become very confident to bring Jinc out all by myself. It is always fun and I love it too. Sometimes, I really dread the preparations before any of our outings, and making sure I bring the correct items with my changing bag can be a pain too. I need at least two hours to prepare before we can step out the door. I remember when I was not having a baby, time for me to change and make up hardly takes up to two hours!

Motherhood has certainly change my lifestyle. Yet, I still think being a mother is the best thing that ever happen to me!

Friday, 4 June 2010

1st picnic..




I brought Jinc out picnic at the park with some friends, and we had a wonderful time!

Whenever I bring Jinc out, he behaves wonderfully and every one told me how bless I am with such easy going baby! Yes, indeed. I guess he is enjoying himself too when we are out and about!

Now, I just can't wait to go picnic again when my mum is here. Picnic with the grandma sounds fun for Jinc too!

Tuesday, 1 June 2010

"I did it with a photobook"

A photobook is the modern way to organise photos.

I have created a few photobooks in the past, and I kinda love them. However, it is quite a long process and can get quite tiring.

This time, I use BootsPhoto to create a photobook. It is easy to use and the price is affordable too. Besides, I get to collect Boots Advantage Card points too. As a stay-at-home mum, I create photobook during my free time, and it has become one of my favourite pastimes these days. With just a click, I get to order the book and hassle free, it delivers to my door within a few days.

I have just created the first photobook for Jinc, and I plan to create a month-by-month series to document his growing-up moments. Now, I just can't wait for the book to arrive!

Friday, 28 May 2010

I Like It...

Quiet afternoon like this do not come very often for me. Baby is taking his nap. I have my coffee and listening to my Ipod, and flipping the magazines. This is what I need most and it is weekend and the sun is shining...

For once, I really appreciate my status now as a stay-at-home mum, housewife, and a wife!

Update, three months old

Jinc is now three months old.

Just had his second set of vaccination two days ago. He was alright, he cried a little, but had been grumpy for the whole day. I am not too worry about that. No temperature though, thank God.

He is now able to lift his head and shoulder for longer period of time. When I put him to his tummy, he will be able to turn and does a 'half' roll over, so cute! He is ever so curious with the surroundings and can't stop exploring.

He sleeps less during afternoon naps, and love to play with toys most of the time. We have got so many toys given by friends and I am glad that we have so many toys for him to play with. As he discovers his own fingers and feet, I think his current favourite toy would be his own fingers. He also loves to put them in his mouth and taste them. Sometimes, he is literally drooling and dribbling and I let him wear a bib most of the time.

He has grown so much compared to last month. He is taking about 6-7 oz during each feed, he now wears a size 3 nappy, and can fit in most of the 3-6months old clothes. He is now 6.3kg (13Ibs14)

He coos a lot too, and every time I speak on the phone with my mum and dad, he joins us and just cannot stop 'talking'. I am sure he is going to be a little chatty boy.

At this stage, I totally love it as a stay-at-home mum and would seriously consider to give up work!

Monday, 24 May 2010

It's a super hot day...

..and I am feeling super sexy!

Wow, it is burning hot in Britain and for a moment, I thought I was in Spain! Love the hot weather so much and for the first time this year, I am wearing shorts at home with T's. I feel so light. Today is also the day that I can finally fit into my pre-pregnancy skinny jeans. I feel amazing!

So, this morning, I was wearing the skinny jeans and pushing the pram and walked to Tesco. It was a very short walking distance but I really enjoyed it.

I feel truly amazing. I can finally fit into my favourite pair of skinny jeans. I wore the jeans all the time pre-pregnancy. Now, I can wear it again, and see, I have got a baby too!

Jinc is three months old tomorrow (officially). He is going to have his second set of vaccinations tomorrow too. Hope things are as fine as before.

Thursday, 20 May 2010

Baby gifts

We received lots of gift when Jinc was born. It is a shame that I did not record all the gifts, but I did send out Thank cards to all those who sent us lovely gifts.

Among the gifts are sets of bibs, lots of babygros and some even up to 18-month old of size! Lots of clothes and booties, some photo frames and some books!

Jinc is a very popular baby!

Wednesday, 19 May 2010

It is a myth!


Recently, a friend back home who is a mum of two, going to be three soon mentioned that Jinc has very dark complexion. I said I am totally fine and I really do not mind my boy to have dark skin. Then she continued to ask me whether I had coffee during my pregnancy with Jinc. My answer was a solid 'yes' and I had decaffeinated coffee throughout, even until now, I stick to decaf coffee. She naively told me that just because I had coffee during my pregnancy, and now I am having a baby with dark complexion.

Oh well, I nearly tell her that actually, I sun-tanned myself when I was pregnant with Jinc!

Thursday, 13 May 2010

Gugu Aa Gaga ...

Went to the baby clinic this morning, and had Jinc checked and weighed..he is now 5.66kg (12.48Ib), at 10 weeks old! I am so pleased. He is doing really fine, and a very happy baby. Apart from that he has got very dry skin on both his wrists. Got some prescriptions for cream to apply on his very dry skin, and special care bath shampoo. Hope things improve when I start using all the prescribed products..

Jinc is a talkative baby. He is making lots of baby sound and when I talk to him, he replied. Although I do not understand his baby language, but I know, he understands me. What a cute stage and I think he will be a chatty little boy when he grows a bit older, just like his daddy!

Thursday, 6 May 2010

My sleeping baby...


Jinc is so wonderful these days. He sleeps through the night, as in 6 to 7 hours in a night. I am so lucky! I got plenty of sleeps as well. Then he would normally wake up at about 8am or 9am for his breakfast. After the morning feed, he goes back to sleep for another two to three hours, and normally wakes up at eleven-ish.

I think Jinc is not a morning person, just like daddy!

At home with my baby...

It rains a lot these days, typical spring day!

I am so getting used to staying at home with just my baby. Time flies, it is like every three hours, i am feeding, then, I am doing the nappy change, then I play with the baby, then I try to make him sleep. It is so typical and I am now starting to establish a routine, and so does the baby.

Routine is good!

Wednesday, 5 May 2010

A pool of bibs...

Baby bibs...Jinc has got so many, and he can wear a different one every day for one whole month without repeating the same design.

Most of the bibs are gifts from friends and I only bought a set of 7pcs basic bibs from Mothercare, the rest come in handy...

Of all the bibs, I really like the extra-large ones without the velcro. They are from Matalan. I love its size which means I can double use it as a small cloth too. The round collar without velcro is so easy to slip on to Jinc and it is easy to take off too. For me, the velcro ones have got the zap-on noise which annoys my Jinc every time I take the bibs off. Of course, some from Marks & Spencers with button on the sides are really practical as well. Unfortunately, those are of newborn sizes and Jinc out grows them too very quickly. Of all the bibs, the set from Next has got the softest cotton and best designs...

Look like I am writing a bib review!!!

Tuesday, 4 May 2010

'Day Off'

It was Bank Holiday Monday yesterday, Sugar was not working. We thought we would go out for some shopping but Sugar was too lazy to go out. In the end, he agreed to stay at home with baby Jinc while I got to go out with my girl friend.

That was a much needed outing! Since baby Jinc arrives, I have never had the chance to go out on my own, without bring him. This time, I felt like the same old me again. Shopping with a girl friend, a chat over coffee and I had a great time.

Arrived home, Sugar was so sweet, I spent my time playing with baby Jinc while he cooked dinner, and he even did all the washing up after dinner!

I feel so loved and Sugar is the best husband in the world!What more can I ask for??

Thursday, 29 April 2010

Nursery rhymes..


I have downloaded some nursery rhymes (Mother Goose Nursery Rhymes) and children songs. Now, my Ipod plays nursery rhymes most of the time!

What a big change!

My contented baby...

Jinc is such a little contented baby. He sleeps so well at night when he has a full tummy, and some afternoons too.

I love holding him to my chest and let him fall asleep on my chest. I love smelling his hair and his skin, then I will look at his beautiful black long eye lashes. His little nose, his soft little ears still with some fine hair along the side of his ear... his chubby cheeks, his tight-closing lips and his smooth fine hair...Oh, my baby is perfect!

I wonder, will he still want to fall asleep on my chest when he is a bit older?

Ironically, I want him to grow up quickly, so that we can talk, joke and enjoy outings together. On another thought, I want him to be my baby forever. Yes, he is going to be my little baby, forever ever and ever!

Wednesday, 28 April 2010

OMG! OMG!

Yesterday, I did the stupidest thing in my entire life. I was clipping Jinc's finger nails, and I carelessly clipped his skin on his fourth finger of his left hand. He was screaming in pain, and his finger was bleeding. I panicked and did not know what to do. I cried too and kept saying sorry while comforting him..I carried him and ran upstairs to Sugar who was still asleep and then Sugar comforted Jinc. Sugar said it was ok, and kept telling Jinc that it was ok...I was crying with guilt and then I rubbed his finger with some cream and cuddled him loads, he stopped crying. By evening, he seemed so well and totally forgot about the pain. He played happily, smiling and cooing.

Today, I still feel terrible. How could I, oh dear!!His finger is Ok now!! I am, kinda having a phobia clipping his nails.

Update, 2 months old

Jinc is now eight weeks old. Yesterday, we brought him to his very first immunisation and went through his two-month health check.

He had two injections, one was DTaP/ IPV/ Hib to protect against diphtheria, tetanus, pertussis (whooping cough), polio and Haemophilus InfluenzaType B. The other injection was PCV to protect against pneumococcal infection.

He was such a strong baby. He was not crying a bit on the first jab. Immediately after the first one, he was given another jab on another thigh, then he started to cry a bit. I was really surprised, as I had expected him to scream on top of his lungs! Both Sugar and I were really impressed, and we just could not stop praising him!

As for his two-month health check, he is perfectly fine, and he is our perfect little boy!

Now, at two months old, he is able to lift his head and shoulder when I put him to his tummy. He can now follow objects and gurgling and cooing a lot more compare to when he was one month old. He smiles a lot especially when he woke up in the morning and saw my face. Every time he smiles, my heart melts. It is all worth it when I think about how tough it was during the first two weeks after he was born! His movement become smoother, and he can now stare and play with mobiles for nearly an hour when I put him to his bouncer chair. He is able to entertain himself now as he discovers his own hands and fingers.

He starts to recognise our faces and voices. When he is hungry and crying for milk, I would show him his bottle full of milk while calling out 'milk-milk', he will turn and stare at me, and stop crying immediately.

Jinc weighs 5kg (11.02Ib) now. He is having 5-6ounces during each feed and can now sleep up to five hours during the night. I am so pleased now as I am finally getting some good night's sleep. He is having shorter naps and plays more. He outgrows most of his newborn clothing. All his newborn bibs are now becoming too small for him. His nappy size is one size up now. He is also having new set of teats, size 2 now on his bottles.

When most experienced mums told me how quickly their babies grow up, I would listen with envy. Today, I am a mum who just cannot believe how quickly her little newborn has grown and is no longer the wriggly newborn....


Saturday, 24 April 2010

I melt with you...


Jinc is my angel!
I love you!

Friday, 23 April 2010

Nappy gets fashionable


These are Huggies nappies.
I am loving all these cute Disney cartoons (Winnie The Pooh) on nappies, and they look so cool on my baby's bum too!!
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My growing baby...

Friday, 16 April 2010

Life after (the baby is born)...


no more late night movies, but late night feedings..and night feedings with broken sleeps..
no more long showers, but a 10-minute shower that feels like luxury...
no more lie-ins, but afternoon naps are bonuses!
no more random shoe-shopping on any shopping trips, but nappy shopping is essential..

Having a baby does change our lives...I have never expected the changes to be so massive. Life is just so different now, and we are moving to an entire different stage of life now. Parenthood is simply wonderful, every day is a challenge, and every day is fill with happiness...

* drawing by Justine Beckett (Parenthood)

Wednesday, 14 April 2010

The very 'first'...

A baby will go through many first times through out his growing up stage. Baby Jinc has got his very first cold since yesterday. I suspect he gets it from me, because I got a cold few days ago, the worse thing is that it is not 100% clear now, and I just can not avoid spreading this to him.

I am feeling so upset with this. Brought him to our GP this morning, and everything seems ok, except that he has blocked nose which made his breathing sounds louder than usual. I feel worry but the GP assured us that this is very common and nothing to be worried about. He has checked that baby Jinc has clear chest and no temperature. However, he is given paracetamol, just in case he has a raise temperature during the night....

No good, no good. I am feeling his discomforts and I feel so sorry for my baby :(

Sunday, 11 April 2010

Newborn portraits..

We had a photo shoot about two weeks ago. I wanted this to be done so that it will last me a lifetime of memory. Jinc is growing up fast every day. Soon, he will no longer be our newborn. In fact, at 6 weeks old today, i could feel that he is growing up too quickly, he outgrows most of his new born sleepsuits, and his nappy size is moving up to a size bigger now...

Click here to see some of our best shots!

Wednesday, 7 April 2010

Still receiving lots of baby gifts...

Although baby Jinc is more than one month old now, we are still getting gifts from friends. I feel so happy that baby Jinc has got so many 'fans' out there!

I have also created thank you cards using the baby photos to be sent out to all our dear friends who are so kind and generous with all the lovely gifts.

We went out yesterday with the baby to see some friends and baby Jinc was so well-behaved and it made me want to bring him out more now. I guess I am getting quite comfortable to bring Jinc out, as he will sleep most of the time when we are out.

Baby Jinc and I are due to the 8-week post natal check in two weeks time, and after that, we will be officially discharge from the maternity care. I just can't stop saying how time passes quickly. It is just like yesterday that I went to labour and had Jinc....

Sunday, 4 April 2010

Oh baby...


Baby Jinc is my world now..
I love him more and more each day, and words just cannot describe my job as a new mum..
I am grateful, for having a healthy and cute baby..and a very understanding husband,
I am blessed with a beautiful baby, and have all the love in the world!

Life is, simply wonderful at this moment! I am loving every minute of it!

Bliss~


Oh, I am getting so used to my life as a mum now. A messy room, lack of time to tidy up the house, overload laundry and the broken sleeps. I believe, as time goes by, things will get better.

Yesterday evening, after I fed baby Jinc, winded him and got him lie on my chest cosily while I sat on the couch, watching Sex And The City on the telly. I really enjoyed our quiet time like this. While enjoying the show, holding Jinc so close to me and breathing his baby smell, i felt like i was in heaven!

Baby Jinc is the best thing that ever happened to me!!!

Tuesday, 30 March 2010

Growth spurts

I think baby Jinc is going through a growth spurt. He is becoming really demanding when it comes to feeding. He is hungry all the time and cries so much when he is sleeping. It is a good sign that he is growing well, and that makes me a really happy mum !!

My love for him grows stronger and stronger each day. Sometimes, I can just sit beside his crib and stare at him for hours when he is asleep. He is such a gorgeous looking little baby, and I just can't take my eyes off him!

Friday, 26 March 2010

Baby traditions : Chinese Full Moon




Baby Jinc is now one month old!!

For Chinese, when a baby turns one month old, a ceremony is held to celebrate his full moon. This is also mean that I have come to an end of my confinement period.

Here, we do not have a big celebration, however, we boiled red eggs and distributed to friends. We received lots of well wishes and wonderful gifts. Now, it is time for me to sort out thank you cards!

Time flies...

It is exactly 4 weeks now since Jinc is born. He is four weeks old now. He sleeps well through the night, and feeds better compared to two weeks ago. I am so please.

He is growing every day, and sometimes, holding him in my arms to sleep is so so nice. The baby smell, the softness of the skin, the hair...I would think, this won't last long until he goes to bed on his own.

This is so amazing, we made a baby!

Tuesday, 23 March 2010

Clingy Baby..

My little baby is very clingy. I hardly have time to sit down and do my own things. He needs cuddle all the time!

I wish I can post more on this blog, about my thoughts and some early parenthood anxieties. Unfortunately, I do not get much time to sit down in front of my computer. I hope this won't be going on for too long...

I hope when Jinc is 4-6 weeks old, he will sleep more during the night. I am still not getting enough sleep at this stage. I am already getting used to it! It is hard work for new mum... Sometimes I do wish my mum is around to help me, at least.....

Wednesday, 17 March 2010

Jinc is three weeks now..

Jinc is already three weeks old with me at home now..
How time flies, my love for him is deeper everyday...
I love my baby, and until today, I still cannot believe that I am a mummy!

Friday, 12 March 2010

Baby has diarrhoe and nappy rash....

Just when I thought I won't be feeling tearful anymore, Jinc has got diarrhoea since last night and he has been very grumpy. We even canceled his photo shoot appointment today.

As Sugar left for work, I tried to take a deep breath and assure myself that things will be fine. It is just me and the baby, and hey, I should enjoy the moment, not dread it!

So, here I am, feeling really content after a big evening feed, and he sleeps soundly in his cot. I can have some me-time, and it is dinner time too.

Jinc's diarrhoea has gone. I am so pleased with it. He is no longer grumpy, but a little happy and content baby. I just can't stop kissing him. Such a darling!

Yes, I am coping well, I guess the baby blues have gone.....Oh, yes, his nappy rash isnt something serious, just some red bottom and it is healing, I am changing his nappies as soon as they get soiled and I am also wiping his bottom with cotton wool and warm water, instead of the convenient baby wipes...Oh, such hard work.

I am loving every moment of being a new mum. I have to keep reminding myself that Jinc is such an angel, and I should be very very grateful...

Thursday, 11 March 2010

Hardly ever have time....

Baby Jinc is 13 days old now.

I am still coping as a new mum, learning his pattern, and as for Jinc, he is also at this learning stage. We are both learning and getting to know each other better. This is not easy. I get panic easily when Jinc started to cry. Then I would be checking whether he needs a nappy change, a feed, or just a cuddle. When this goes on like every hour, you can go insane!!!

I guess this is the fun part of being a new mum. More fun moments to look forward to, i guess...

I can only do quick post these days...Jinc is very clingy and I am loving it!

Facebooking is great. So many well wishes from friends all over the world. I feel overwhelmed, not to mention many advice flooded in by other mum friends too. I feel very good to be able to talk motherhood and parenting with friends who have young children... We are all learning..

Wednesday, 10 March 2010

Daddy's Birthday...


Happy Birthday to Daddy.... we love you loads...

No special birthday celebration, but lots of cuddles with our bundle of joy!

Coping..

Jinc, day 13...

I am breastfeeding Jinc ever since he was born. Now, I am struggling with the breastfeeding. My nipples hurt so much and I have to express my milk.

I have got a breastfeeding advisor who comes to visit me and shows me different positions to feed my baby. It is so tough, I am totally drain out, and I just feel like I need to switch to formula milk. Baby doesnt seem too satisfied after each feed.

God, please help me!

Sunday, 7 March 2010

Breast is best!

I started breast feeding straight after I delivered Jinc. He was put to my tummy right after the birth and we had a short cuddle and skin-to-skin moment. It was so amazing, and the first time that I saw his face I just could not believe myself! I have got a baby boy now. I remember, he then found my breast and wanted to suck on it immediately. That was such a special moment and the very first time that I ever felt so motherly when my baby was sucking on my nipple. I was feeding my baby, it was so natural. All I got was colostrum and my baby was getting all the goodness!


I am very determine that I want to breastfeed him as long as I can. Now, at his 10th day and the feeding is not going very well. Even though I have established breast feeding and the milk comes in on the third day after delivery. The latching on is still a problem, and tomorrow I will have to see the breastfeeding advisor. Sigh. I feel very devastated when he could not latch on properly.

I am getting worried, I am not sure whether he is getting enough. He does not seem to grow... Sigh..


Friday, 5 March 2010

Got milk?


I am trying to breastfeed bay Jinc as much as I could.
Unfortunately, he has got problem latching on properly, resulted a cracked nipple on my left breast. It hurts so much and I am tempted to quit breastfeeding! Sigh...

I am still not ready to give up, I guess.

I have booked the breastfeeding support worker to come round my house to teach me the correct position. Meanwhile, I am applying Lansinoh nipple cream to ease my pain. I am also hand-expressing breast milk to the bottle, I have no choice... I feel terribly upset with this. It seems, the more upset I get, the chances of successful breastfeeding is lower. So , I got to be strong and think positive!

3oz of breast milk (pic), and I am producing more...!!

A hungry baby makes an upset mum, so I want to feed my baby Jinc as much as he wants so that he is satisfied and stay happy!

Breastfeeding, should come natural and should not be stressful for new mum like me!

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Lansinoh nipple cream is so useful. It helps to heal crack nipples and ease my nipple pain. It is so easy to use, and it is very effective. After a few applications, I could see that my nipple is healing and the best thing about Lansinoh nipple cream is that it need not be washed away whenever I am giving the breast to my baby. It is so convenient. It is a godsend!


Thursday, 4 March 2010

Jinc Ling


Jinc Ling, my new born, my first son, he is my world, my everything!!

I am a mum now!!!




Our baby boy was born on 26th February 2010. He arrives safely right on the dot of his due date. Very pleased with it.

The labour was very smooth, and it was quick. I started to feel mild contraction at 5.18am on the 25th. It was so mild that I could continue to sleep, and continue to do usual daily activities. I kinda had the feeling that the little one will make an appearance soon.

Apart from the mild contraction, I had a 'show'. I rang the maternity unit of my hospital and told them about the contraction, the midwife advised me to stay relax and to stay at home as long as I could, because it was the latent phase of labour. I was not on active labour yet.

I had a nap, I spent some time chatting with Sugar, he was not working and we spent the whole day together. We had dinner together, chatted, and the contractions continued. It did not hurt, but it was a little bit uncomfortable.

After dinner, I decided to lie down for a rest, but the contraction had turned stronger. I was bleeding and I was not sure anymore whether it was the mucus plug or it was something else. I rang the maternity unit again, and the midwife advised me to go in to the hospital.

So, at about 9.30pm, we arrived at the hospital, at the antenatal unit. The midwife checked on me, monitored baby's heart beat, and she was happy that I should go home and wait for active labour to begin. Everything seemed so fine. So, we went home at about 11.30pm. At about 1.30,am I felt the regular strong contraction. I could no longer lie down on my bed. I started to do deep breathing to ease the pain. The pain was managable, but very uncomfortable. I called my midwife again, and she told us to go back to the hospital. I grabbed my hospital back and off we went to the hospital again. Luckily, the hospital is very closeby, about 5 minutes drive from our house.

Arrived at the hospital, midwife checked on baby's heart beat, and the contraction became stronger and stronger. The midwife, Jeannette was so caring and supportive, she taught me to breathe through every contraction. She checked on me, I was only 2cm dilated. As the contraction came stronger and stronger, she finally agreed to send me off to the delivery suite. As I was having the Group B Strep, I needed to put on antibiotics before the birth.

Arrived at the delivery suite at about 2.00am. I lied on the bed, breathing through every strong contraction. Sugar right beside me, and he was doing the breathing with me. I requested for an epidural as the pain was so strong i dreaded some pain relief. Two very helpful midwives, Lynn and Louise at the delivery suite advised me to use Entonox (Gas & Air). I was quite relieve to have some form of pain relief. The gas and air helped eliminate the pain, I felt quite pleased with it. Sugar was beside me throughout. I was nervous, but I knew, I would see my baby very soon. Lynn, the midwife was very humorous and she joked all the time trying to switch my attention away from the pain that I had.

Within 2 hours of breathing and with the help of Entonox and lots of drinking water, as my mouth and throat had gone very very dry. I was told that I was already 10cm dilated. It was a good news. I had my antibiotics on, and I prayed hard that baby will be fine and healthy. When I feel the urge to push, I made a few 'big' pushes, and there he was, crying out loud! Our baby arrived safely. Such great joy, but i did not cry... I was completely relieve, as I had made it! What a great achievement.

Our baby boy made it to the world at 5.20am. He was then put straight to my tummy, to have skin-to skin contact with me. I was overwhelmed. I did not cry, although I thought I would. Sugar cried and left the delivery suite to send the good news to all our family and friends.

What a short and straight forward labour!

A million thanks to Lynne Gethendae and Louise Shaw, the midwives on that day who helped deliver my baby.

Thursday, 25 February 2010

The 'show'

I woke up to a mild contractions. Feeling really excited, yet worry now.

I went to the toilet and discovered that I have had a 'show'. I did not know it was a show, it was of a little bit of red blood and mucus. I rang my maternity helpline, and spoke to a midwife and she re assured me that this is a 'show'.

So, does this mean the labour is starting? I am feeling really fit and great, apart from the very mild cramp on my lower abdomen....I think labour has kicked start now, or hasn't it really...

I keep thinking about food, and I guess I am going to make some toasts to start off. Sugar is at home but he is fast asleep now. I hope this is the start of my labour.

I just can't wait to see my baby!

Sunday, 21 February 2010

Facebook is for gossips!

My life as a housewife has never been a bore these days. Ever since I started my maternity leave on mid December, I have been enjoying every minute of it.

There are some of my co-workers who always wonder how I occupy my time as they assume that I would have nothing to do at all by staying at home. They are completely wrong. This is in fact the best time of my life. I have got so much to do every day. I am in complete control of my own time and do things that I really enjoy doing, such as cooking, reading and listening to good music. When Sugar leaves home to work, I will be alone at home, but that is not really that bad.

The internet keeps me busy all the time too. There are so many information available online for me to read, from organic food to latest fashion trend. I can never get enough. Furthermore, I have lots of good friends online who never fail to keep me busy with all sorts of gossip and latest news of our peers.

Facebooking is also one of the daily thing that I do, like most people do. Unfortunately, recently I am quite annoyed with some comments on Facebook and some friends do really take things personal by using Facebook. It is a social networking site, and I used it to share certain 'filtered' information of myself, my family and my friends. Yet, some people take things too personally and ruin the whole point of using Facebook as a fun tool to stay in touch with people that we like.

Anyway, I am still loving facebook for the fact that I get to know how judgmental some friends could get!

Oh yes.. My baby is due on 26th Feb...today is the 21st, I used to fancy that I might be having my baby on this date. This is such a special date, now you see, 210210...Isnt this something easy to remember if my child were to be born on this date?





Saturday, 20 February 2010

The sun is shining, the birds are singing...

...and I am loving it!

It is such a lovely day today!

The weather is nice with lots of sunshine. I am having my maternity portrait done today. My photographer, Theresa is so fun to work with. We started at about 1.00pm and finished the session at about 5.00pm. Now, I just can't wait to see those images.


Friday, 19 February 2010

I just can't help...counting down.

I am exactly seven days, to enter into a complete new stage of my life. I am going to be a mother!

Yes, motherhood, a lifelong journey that will change my life completely. When I first discovered that I was pregnant, all I wanted to know was about pregnancy and my developing fetus. Now, all I want to know is about parenting, about how to cope as a new mother. It is such a daunting experience, yet an exciting journey to start with.

Now, all I want to focus is the birth of my child. I want to have a positive birth experience. I have been finding out so much about labour and birth, and get myself prepared. Getting to know my body and understand the natural process of birth helps to promote my self confidence, and I keep assuring myself that I can go through a very smooth and positive delivery. I am sure it is going to be the most unforgettable event in my life!

Let's see whether my baby will come earlier, or bang on, or taking his time. Due date is on the 26th, and I do hope baby comes on time, simply because I have put this down on my diary, it is like we have an appointment, so show up on the date!


Wednesday, 17 February 2010

MumStuff

I love this website :

MumStuff, full of useful items for every stage of pregnancy and new mum.

I have been reading so much about labour and birth on the internet for the whole week, and I certainly need a break. I am prepared and I will take every stage with confidence, and wait for the birth of my healthy baby!

Monday, 15 February 2010

Decided....


We have decided on the name for our baby.
We are naming him, Jinc Ling, and in Chinese, 凌靖

We think Jinc is such a unique name. Jinc goes so well with our family name, Ling. I love this name so much, and I hope our baby will love it as much too when he grows up!

Sunday, 14 February 2010

Chinese new year!


This year is so different. I am at 38 weeks pregnant and with a baby bump, I just feel fabulous and looking forward to seeing my Lil'B anytime from now. Next year, we are a family of three, to celebrate this most celebrated date on the Chinese calendar.

It is the year of the Tiger this year..A roaring year, awesome!

Wednesday, 10 February 2010

Everyone makes me happy!

Got a surprise parcel all the way from Melbourne yesterday. It was from a good friend, Tiffany. She sent me a baby body suit and a pair of very cute little boy's booties. Made my day...

Went to town this morning, for some shopping and to the bank. Every one was so nice to me. I got chatted up every where, the teller at the bank, the sales assistants at the stores... All because I have got a big baby bump. Those good remarks and well wishes made my day too!

I am due in 2 weeks time (may be sooner, can be later). So very soon. Very excited!


small note: Found my ipod earphone..phew...i blame my forgetfulness to the pregnancy hormones!

Happy Day...

Today is a happy day. Every day is, to be honest. I am so very happy today because I got a new mobile phone. I have finally convinced myself to start accessing the internet using a mobile phone. Every one is doing it now, I am a bit behind though.

My mobile phone contract has almost come to an end and I am entitled a free upgrade. So, I got a brand new Nokia N97Mini. I wanted an Iphone initially, hey, every one is having it and I am sure I would like it, I just did not get it, simply because they need me to pay for the phone. I prefer a Free phone with my contract! This Nokia is good enough for me at this very moment. Still have lots to getting used to it though... It is overall, 8 out of 10,and I like it!


Tuesday, 9 February 2010

W37 and 3 days...

Oh, i just cant wait to pop now!

Went for my midwife appointment, everything is alright, and my midwife said to come in again after 2 weeks. Things are all going really well. Baby's heart beat ok, my blood pressure ok, urine test, ok, all ok...

Well, I am hoping to see her again. I forgot to ask her about water birth. Sugar and I are thinking to opt for a water birth. I am not sure whether I will be fit to do so. We shall see. I guess my Lil'B will love to be out in the water!

I have already packed my hospital bag, I feel all prepared now. However, I could not find my ipod earphone. I feel so annoyed and I want to bring my ipod to the hospital! I am sure it is somewhere. I am also afraid I might accidentally throw it to the bin when I tidy up the chest drawers many weeks ago! I have not been using my ipod with its earphone ever since we moved to the new house. The ipod is always at the speakers...hmmph...now, this is something I must sort out...

Saturday, 6 February 2010

20 days to go...


I cant help to start counting down. Not long to go now, and I am so so near to the due date. How do I feel now? I feel great! I just cant wait for the moment. I am going to scream my heart out at the delivery suite!!

I really want to do it!

I am thinking to do a set of maternity portrait. I have been looking and sourcing local photographers. I would like to have it done as natural as possible. Sugar is very supportive and he totally agrees that I have to just do it, or regret it for my entire life!

This is my first pregnancy, might not be my last pregnancy, but Sugar says we can have it done on every pregnancy should we plan to have more children in the future. His kind and supportive words are really reassuring, and I would not feel guilty to have to spend a fortune to do the portrait.

I kinda have my mind set to book this Egg In The Nest Photography. It is local and done by a female photographer, Theresa, who is a mum to a one-year-old too. I like her work too, seems like I have found the photographer that I want. I will just go ahead and book her!

Sorted!

Friday, 5 February 2010

I am still having a cold....

I am still having a cold. The blocked nose is very annoying, and I am breathing using my mouth, which causes dry lips. I am not sure I will be able to sleep properly tonight.

I am drinking lots of water, honey and a glass of Redoxon. I am not taking any medication and I hope I will get better tomorrow.

I cooked some chicken porridge as dinner and it tasted so good! So, I am still very happy!

This morning, I walked to Tesco. We are living so close to Tesco that I can walk there every day for groceries. I like to take a walk, as I will pass by a park, and the weather was extremely cheerful this morning. Bought some groceries, and I also bought a box of nursing pads, and a pack of nappy disposal bags. Sugar and I have been thinking to buy a nappy disposal, I thought that would come in really handy, as a newborn would need an average of 10-14 nappy changes in a day. We do not want a room smells of dirty nappies and I guess nappy disposal is such a brilliant innovation. I guess we will just get that when we drive there.

I particularly like this brand called Tommee Tippee. We have got a steriliser by this brand. I bought the nursing pad by this brand too, might get the breast pump when my milk comes in. It is a trusted brand and it is always the quality that counts.

Before I got pregnant, I have never knew that there are all these products exist in the market. As I am stepping into motherhood, I have come across so many useful and innovative products. Being a mother in the 21st century is so much easier than my mum's time. When I was a baby, my mum was using cloth diaper all the time and I just could not imagine the wash load of a newborn in the 70s!





Thursday, 4 February 2010

I think I catch a cold!

It is very common to have colds and flu during pregnancy. Today, I woke up feeling normal, just a bit of sore throat. I eat as usual and in the evening, I feel fatigue and took a nap. I know it is common to catch a flu during pregnancy. During this time, my immune system is weaker and the fly symptoms may persist longer. I wonder how I catch the flu...no good!

I am drinking lots of water to try to flush out the virus! I want to be fit and healthy so that I can enjoy my very last stage of pregnancy, and feel fabulously about the whole term of my pregnancy!

Tuesday, 2 February 2010

Long hair, short hair....

Went for a hair cut today.

I thought I would be brave enough to chop it all, but I had a trim at first. Then my stylist showed me the length, I felt that I needed it to be shorter. I got a feeling that I do not want long and messy hair in the delivery suite. I also will not have time to do my hair when the baby is here, so I dared myself to go shorter. This is the shortest length that I get. I have not have my hair this short for about 10 years now. Big deal!

Ever since I am pregnant, my hair is perfect. It grows so fast, it is thicker and fuller. I love it.
It is now slightly over my shoulder, and I am quite happy with the length. This is also the shortest length that I have. My hair nearly reached my waist before the hair cut today!

I know, it will grow back longer, easily. I just pray hard that I will not have hair loss problem after the birth. Thinning hair is my biggest worry. God, please help me!

According to some studies, it is said that diets that contain lots of iron rich food, and a diet rich in protein can encourage hair growth. Foods high in Vitamin B are also said to provide nutrient to the hair.

So, eat a balanced diet, then you will feel amazing inside out!




W36



Oh, this is so so good!

I am now 36 week pregnant. I am carrying a full term baby now, and if the baby were to arrive anytime now, the baby will be able to survive.

I went for my midwife appointment this morning. Everything is in order. The progress is good, and midwife told me I am more likely to have a straight forward birth. Deep down, I am hoping it to be a really straight forward and smooth birth experience. I have done my birth plan. I am not sure whether the plan and actual birth will be the same. From what I have read so far, most birth experience do not go according to what has planned. Anyway, I am glad I have done the birth plan, which means I am feeling well prepared and more in control. Now, just wait for the contraction.

Bring on the L.A.B.O.U.R ! Arghhhhh!


Saturday, 30 January 2010

Maternity Portrait

At 36 weeks pregnant, I am really thinking to have my maternity portrait taken. I have sourced the local maternity photographer and really like her work. She lives near our town too, so I guess I might get her to do it for me, before it is too late!

Egg In The Nest Photography offers many packages from maternity/ infant portrait to family portrait. I am planning to get the maternity package and the newborn package. Sugar is very supportive and he said I should really get it done before the birth.

Not long to go now, I guess it will be a good idea to just do it, it will last a lifetime of memory. This pregnancy has been smooth and enjoyable. I certainly want this as a good memory in my life!

Thursday, 28 January 2010

One of my favourite pass times..

Browsing online recipes is one of my favourite pass times these days.

Here are a few good ones I use, and besides those mouth watering recipes, I totally admire those impressive food photography. I love, love, love them so much and it never fails to made my day!

The Food Site, I can spend hours browsing this site and I love its easy to follow recipes with pictures!

Rasa Malaysia
, this is my top favourite. See it for yourself!

My Kitchen Snippets, full of dishes that i like!

Temple of Thai
, this is full of easy-to-follow Thai recipes. It has cooking videos too, handy!

These are only a few that I browse. I have been checking out Chinese websites as well. My love for cooking has grown tremendously, and I want to learn to do it better. I am really glad that with the internet, I can get any recipes online with just a click!

Wednesday, 27 January 2010

It's just another day...

I slept for 12 hours, and woke up in the afternoon. I went to bed at nearly 2am last night. So, I would not need an afternoon nap, I slept through lunch time... what a mess, and I had my 'breakfast' at nearly 2pm. Breakfast was two slices of toasts with butter and a glass of hot chocolate. I am taking things really easy now, for I know, when Lil'B arrives, I will no longer have all these luxuries.... not long to go now. It will be a huge change, and I am not sure how well I can cope.. I am nervous inside, yet another side of myself tells me to relax and things are going to be really fun!!

At this stage, I kinda understand why most mum-to-be dread the final weeks so much and want the baby to just pop...I get it now. A good night's sleep is never a good night's sleep with endless trips to the toilet, strange dreams, baby's strong movements, trying to find the right sleeping positions and always wake up to find myself in the lie-flat position, then I would feel panic and quickly switch to sleeping-on-the-left-side position. Then, occasional noise will wake me for a bit, then to the toilet, and it is repeating itself, e-v-e-r-y night. So, I sometimes wonder whether I sleep really well or I am adapting well to this pattern....

Well, being at 35 weeks pregnant, I am very grateful that I do not have back ache and leg cramps. I consider myself really lucky, to have an easy pregnancy and I am still enjoying every minute of it!

The best part is the baby's movement kinda communicate with me and telling me that I am meeting my baby real soon! I just can't wait, can you, darling?






Tuesday, 26 January 2010

Not long to go now...


My baby due date is 26th Feb...and it is another 31 days to go now.

Hmm, I am wondering whether baby will come early, or on the dot or, a little bit late....I know this is not for me to say. My lil'B will know the right time to come say hello to the world!

All I ask for is a healthy baby!

Saturday, 16 January 2010

I am big and beautiful...


...and I love it!
see the dark vertical line, called linea nigra...it is caused by pigmentation in the skin where the abdominal stretch and separate to accommodate my growing baby during pregnancy, and will fade within few weeks of delivery.

Not too worry about that, and I weight 70kg now!

Tuesday, 12 January 2010

End of shopping list? No way...




For the past few weeks, Sugar and I have been buying things to prepare for the arrival of our baby. The shopping list is never ending, and we kinda enjoy shopping for our baby. This is something completely new and the feeling is overwhelming. We 'ahh' and 'woww' at almost all the newborn clothings, and essentials. It is such a fun experience.

We are still not done with the shopping. The most important item in our list would be the infant car seat, and an infant travel system, of course. We have been looking at some preferred brands, seen the demo from the shops, read online reviews, compared the prices (lots of hard work...) and compared the product features based on our needs. We have done all the necessary research and kinda finalised. After all, we have less than 8 weeks to go now, we have to really get things going.

As we are traveling by own car most of the time, and we have spacious car boot, so we opt for a stylish three-wheeler.This morning, Sugar and I went back to the local shop that we frequent, the shop assistant is always superb and I really like its personalised service. We have finally ordered what we want, and the goods will arrive in two weeks time, not bad at all. We are completely happy and relieved! Time to celebrate, huh!!

Yes, we have ordered the Quinny Buzz 3, comes with a matching carry cot, will be handy for newborn, and with the Maxi-Cosi car seat (sold seperately),I can ensure my Lil'B is safe and comfortable to travel home with me for the first time. The best part is, we get to choose the colour that we want, and I think colours play a big role in making things look more stylish and less boring. We absolutely love the purchase today. As lil'B is not here yet, so we have no one to try on. Will post another review later on...

I can't say that this is a bargain, Sugar always believes in 'what-you-pay-is-what-you-get'. Well, this can be used up to Lil'B is 4 year-old, so I do not really mind. I am really glad that we have finally sorted this out!




Wednesday, 6 January 2010

White Blanket!


It's been snowing. Yesterday was so bad that Sugar did not need to go to work. We went to the nearby park and had some fun in the snow, playing snow balls and looking at happy kids building snowman. What a great afternoon we had.

We love it!

Thursday, 31 December 2009

2010, bring it on!!


I have a very quiet New Year's eve night, staying at home. Sugar is working, and I am staying at home waiting for him to come back from work. I know, it is not very glamourous to go attend New Year's Eve party at 32-week pregnant. Furthermore, the weather is so cold, i dread going out.

For a change, this is so relaxing and it is all I ever wanted. For the past three years, I have never had the chance to spend a quiet evening at home at the eve of a new year. I really appreciate this quiet evening, all by myself.

I watched the news on the telly, feeling the new year mood all around the globe. Some countries have already stepped into the new year. Fireworks every where, view of fireworks in HK from Victoria Harbour, Sydney Harbour in Sydney, in New Zealand, over Red Square in Moscow..... wow!!!

Welcome to 2010!

2010 is going to be a great year for us, we are a family of three !! How exciting is that?

Wednesday, 23 December 2009

The saviour of my dry lips...


Cold winter months...I have dry and chapped lips. My old lip balm does not seem to do a good job this time. I need a new product, to have fantastic result and won't burn my pocket! Today, I went to the local Boots and bought a lip butter. It is only £2.49!!!!! I tried it, I only applied it twice within 3 hours, and my lips are now so smooth and it tastes so good. It has the scent of dark chocolate and peppermint. For me, it smells just like After Eight! Yummy! I love it. It is really amazing and how can I not share this with all those who suffer dry and chapped lips?

I always love Palmer's cocoa butter products. I have been using cocoa butter for many years now, and with a growing baby bump, cocoa butter is such a pampering product. It smells so good on me, it also protects me from stretchmarks. I started using cocoa butter during my first trimester. Now, at 30 weeks and 5 days pregnant, I have not seen any marks, I have a baby smooth baby bump that I am so proud of, even my midwife is awed. May be it is my gradual weight gain, with the help of cocoa butter at least two times a day, I pray hard that I will not develop stretch mark throughout this pregnancy, high hope!





Tuesday, 22 December 2009

I want one of these...


Sugar and I went to Selfridges and been looking around for some Christmas bargain...Then I saw this nice baby changing bag and I thought it looks really cool. Sugar said it looks nice on me too. There are pink and baby blue ones, but i have fallen in love with this grey one....Oh, darling!


This will be my perfect Christmas present, ever! Drooling...

Thursday, 17 December 2009

Cooking for two...


Ever since my maternity leave starts, I am throughly enjoying my time staying at home while Sugar goes to work. I enjoy cleaning the house, doing the laundry and my favourite of them all would be cooking for two!

It makes me very happy every time Sugar comes home to eat. Sometimes he will call me from work and ask what dishes I would be cooking, then we can kinda plan the dishes on the phone. I absolutely love it! When it is Sugar's day off, he will cook for me, and he loves cooking as well.

With the cold weather, and blasting heating these days, I boiled some Chinese sweet soup to sooth our appetite, and to stay warm. Picture shown one of my favourites, it is easy to make and it is white fungus with sweet red dates, lotus seed and dried longan. Such a winter warmer, the Chinese way!


Wednesday, 16 December 2009

I absolutely love this stage of my life!



Counting down...there are about 72 days till my due date. I cant believe it, it is less than 100 days, I still have lots of things to prepare for the arrival of my little prince.

I am grateful that I have started my maternity leave early so that I can plan things ahead. I just want to organised as much things as possible because I do not know when exactly is the 'B-DAY'. It is all excitement and I will try to be as calm as possible and I will pray for a smooth delivery and an easy labour.

Today, I spent the whole day relaxing around the house, I took a nap in the afternoon, I have not done this for such a long, long time, and it feels so good. I also spent the evening doing some craft. I made paper pockets to put Lil'B's ultra scan pictures which were taken when he was only 20 weeks in my womb! How time flies, he is now closer to meeting me in person!

I just can't wait...I am also into the stage that I am reading as much info as possible about birth and delivery. I just want to find out as much as possible, chat in the forums, chat with new mums and find out as much as I could so that I know what to expect and do not panic...(the breathing.....ahh).

I have yet to write my birth plan, but I have already had a rough idea of what I need during the birth. Let's pray that every thing goes smoothly as my plan!! Let's just pray for that!

Tuesday, 15 December 2009

I love our home...


Ever since we moved in to the new house, we have been constantly adding new things, be it in the kitchen, the bedrooms or the lounge. As the weather turns cold, we bought some new throws for the sofa, so we can stay warm while watching TV. The new Missoni throw that we bought is really comfy and warm. This afternoon, we go back to buy another one. I love the colours and the fabric, I am still thinking to get more of those, who knows, I can get the smaller size for my baby, as a blanket. We still have more things to get as the baby is arriving soon.

I really enjoy shopping for the household products. I absolutely love shopping for baby products too. I have changed so much ever since I am pregnant. I no longer go mad about shoe shopping. Perhaps the changes in my body shapes put me off all sorts of shopping for my wardrobe. I just cannot believe that as an expecting mum, this is such a massive change. I am becoming so adapting to housewifery. It is such a great change and it is soemthing good, I believe...

This is a nice feeling. I love our home so much, there is nothing like home. It is the safest place in the world, it is full of love, it is ours, it is such a happy place. We hope one day, we can afford a bigger house, and live happily ever after with our family.

Thursday, 10 December 2009

Mothercare Gift Card

I am so happy!

Received an email informing me that I have won a £100 Mothercare Gift Card from one of the online competitions that I have entered.

I am always keen to enter competitions online through all the moms & babies websites. I just cant believe I have actually won something!

Let's go shopping at Mothercare!

Tuesday, 8 December 2009

Feeling guilty!


I missed my antenatal appointment this morning. I rang my midwife later and tried to book for another appointment next week, but it is all fully booked. So i guess I have to book for a week after that, which means it is so close to Christmas! I feel so guilty!

This morning, Sugar and I went shopping for infant travel system. It's just amazing to find out that there are so many choices out there and we are all confused now. We did not buy any today, will do more research and find out our real needs. We bought a Mamas and Papas moses basket, really pleased with it, and I just cannot stop carrying it from my bedroom to downstairs pretending that I am busy showing off Lil'B to my guests!! What a nice feeling... I just cannot wait to see my boy!

I hope to get to book in an appointment for my routine antenatal check-up soon! Oh, yesterday evening, Sugar and I went for our very first antenatal class. It was rubbish. It lasted for two hours, and there were only 6 of us in a class. Before the class, I would imagine that it was a nice class, and I would get to meet many parents-to-be and make new friends. Now, Sugar refused to go to the second class with me next week. I am also lack of motivation and do not think that I will want to attend the class. The topic covered yesterday was all about birthing and labour...not very informative though, Well, the session was so boring and so lack of preparations, and I am getting better and more useful information from books and websites. What a waste of time, the class...., I have already read it before. Next week's class will talk about breast feeding, and I think I might give it a pass, I have a very good midwife and I am sure I can learn a lot from her, more like a one-on-one session!

This week is my last week at work, and I can put my feet up, my maternity leave starts next week!!!! Yay!

Tuesday, 1 December 2009

It's winter cold on December...


The cold weather has begun... I do not like it, it is too cold for me. Turning on the heating also means too dry for my skin and my lips. It is dreadful, it is really that bad and I feel that I cannot do anything about it, completely... Switching on the heating is definite, as Sugar said, it is better to stay warm than worrying about dried lips....So, I am drinking lots of water, and drinking lots of water also means uncountable trips to the loos, it is good in a way, walking to the loos is a form of exercise, to me. Besides the unpleasant nasty cold, I love hot showers on cold days, so relaxing. I always love the after-shower feeling, it cheers me up!

Yesterday, I went to the hospital to get my swine flu jab. It did not hurt, it was like a sharp scratch. After that, for the whole evening, I could not lift my left arm, it was a bit numb. I woke up this morning with still a bit of numbness, but I am totally ok now.

Yesterday, Sugar and I drove to China Town for some dimsum... I did not eat much. These days, I only make sure I eat half full, or rather, I have small meals every time, but have snacks in between. I am afraid eating too full will make me feel uncomfortable, as now my baby is growing bigger and bigger each day.

I am about to start my maternity leave. I am so looking forward to it! When my leave starts, I will have lots of free time, i will most probably be staying at home loads. Sugar will be working, so i will need to think of something else to do when I am all alone at home. Cooking sounds like a good idea...I guess I will love my domestic life more, hopefully....